We eventually had separate bedrooms so I could stop going to the couch shortly after he came to bed.
That was our “at home” solution.
But, when we started planning a vacation, we realized it was going to cost double the money for a hotel because we would each need our own room.
I resisted reserving a second hotel room because I didn’t want to spend an extra $2,500 on an already costly vacation. I just planned on wrapping my pillow around my head and doing my best to not hear the snoring.
He made me realize if I didn’t get my sleep, I would not enjoy the trip... and neither would he if I were grumpy every day from lack of sleep. We didn’t realize it at the time, but this is a common dilemma for over 40% of couples.